50 Shades of STFU:
Schedule
Thu Oct 24 2024 at 08:00 pm
UTC-07:00Location
Sanctuary Club | Portland, OR
Presented by Mistress Viola, 50 Shades of STFU is a kinky play party and social event forfemdoms and femme tops and the individuals who serve and worship them. We have been
home at Sanctuary since 2017!
In honor of spooky season, we encourage you to dig up your demonic best. Channel your
inner witch, vampire or victim, pagan goddexx, or horny devil. Any halloweeny costumes or
creativity encouraged. As usual the theme is encouraged but not mandatory, but the dress
code (see below) is!
What happens at this infamous event?
We aim to create an inclusive space for LGBTQ, pansexual, queer, or straight submissives
and their fem tops. If you're a cis male dom this is really not the event for you. However, if
you're switchy and/or abide by the dress code you are welcome to join us!
Tastings run from 8:30 to 9:30 when we break for a performance moment and then there's
another tastings block from 10-11. Doors at 8pm and spots for tastings do fill quickly; they
are first come first serve. Very excited to welcome back MxPucksAPlenty for another
smoking hot and hellishly sexy featured performance.
As usual, RedeemerPDX will be there with his diabolical handmade impact toys for sale &
BootblackAmber will be joining us again to care for your leathers.
Playspaces, St. Andrews cross, semi-private areas, spanking benches, and hard points are
available.
DRESS CODE:
No effort, no entry!
FemDom/femme attendees can dress to impress as they wish (fetish wear encouraged).
Male/submissive attendees are required to dress to express their interest in femdom, even
in some small way, examples include:
● Fetish wear, collars/leash, cuffs, high heels, fetish shoes, hoods, leather, PVC
● Crossdressed, glamour, make-up, lingerie
● Uniforms*, costumes, puppy or animal costumes
● Bright silly clothing, rainbows, sweet jammies, cute underpants, bow ties, bunny
ears, etc.
Male attendees:
May not wear plain street clothes, jeans, or even a nice suit. If you have not made an effort
to abide by the dress code, you may not be allowed entry.
First-timers who do not own fetishwear may wear:
● Something costumey or silly
● Can be shirtless or take their pants off to show off their underwear.
Racist/fascist symbols or uniforms are not allowed in the club
Sanctuary is 21+, LGBTQ+, ADA accessible (there is an elevator), anti-racism, and celebrates diversity. Enter on **Ninth
BIPOC folks please reach out to [email protected] for a spot on the guest-list for
FREE entry. If you are experiencing financial hardship or if cost is a barrier please reach out
for a spot as well. More information and a link to an anonymous feedback form available at
MistressViola.com/events.
OFFICIAL PARTY RULES OF ENGAGEMENT:
Cell phones may only be used outside or in the outer hallway. NO PHONES OUT IN CLUB.
If we see you taking photos or filming you will be asked to leave immediately. The only
exception is at the photobooth. Please ensure only consenting people are in any photo
taken at the photobooth.
● No audio or video recording devices are allowed.
● No drugs or outside alcohol allowed.
● CONSENT CONSENT CONSENT. Do not touch another person or their property
without their explicit permission. No means no. Do not get pushy or aggressive. This
behavior will be grounds for being asked to leave the club. Play is encouraged but
NEVER expected.
● Do not interrupt scenes!
● Do not get too close to play scenes or ask to be involved.
● Always negotiate boundaries before playing.
● Risk-aware and 100% consensual play only.
● Dungeon Monitors (DMs) will be present and monitoring the space to the best of
their abilities, be aware: this space gets crowded. Attendees will respect the
Dungeon Monitors, hosts, security, and Sanctuary staff and will adhere to the rules
and instructions.
● Aggressive cruising will not be tolerated. Be aware of the space and energy you are
taking when you hover or get near a play scene.
● No blood play, urine play, hot wax, fire, vomit, scat, knife play, guns, race play, or
breath play. The DMs will end scenes including these actions.
● Limit your play scenes to 45 mins to allow time for others to use the play areas,
suspension points and dungeon furniture as there are limited areas.
● Genitals must be covered unless part of an active play scene. This goes all for all
attendees. Sheer stuff is ok just make sure the goodies are covered in some way.
● Clean furniture and play equipment before and after scenes. Cleaning supplies are
provided by the club.
● Do not move play furniture without discussing with DMs first.
● If you're planning to embark on an intense or edgy scene please let a DM know prior.
● If you feel someone is misbehaving, being aggressive, or making you or someone
else feel uncomfortable, please let the DMs or hosts or club staff know ASAP and we
will do what we can to inform the individual or have them removed.
● Use of the word “safeword” is a call for assistance. DMs and/or other experienced
players will intervene and come to your aid when they hear it. If a DM hears the word
"red" they might intervene if they feel it is necessary.
Where is it happening?
Sanctuary Club, 31 NW 9th Ave, Portland, OR 97209-3301, United States,Portland, Oregon
