[30s-40s] Vibe First Swipe Later: An Offline Conscious Dating Social

Back for its 20th running!

A social-anxiety-friendly intentional dating social for singles who want connection to feel more natural, playful, and real.

To join, kindly RSVP.

❤️ Vibe First, Swipe Later is an intentional social that encourages conscious dating and slow connection through fun activities, guided conversations, and thoughtfully curated group games.

This is not speed dating.

This is not matchmaking.

This is not another awkward singles mixer where you’re left standing around wondering what to say.

Games Night!

This Games Night Edition is designed for singles who want to meet others in a more relaxed, playful, and low-pressure way, without dating app fatigue, forced small talk, or performative “tell me about yourself” energy.

Whether you’re looking for...

New friendships, soulful chemistry, a spark you didn’t expect, or simply an evening that feels a little more human, this isn’t your usual singles event.

It’s light enough to feel fun.

Structured enough to feel safe.

And intentional enough to help you meet people beyond surface-level conversation.

❤️ Event Details

📅 Date: 22 May Friday

👥 Age Group: 30s-40s

⏰ Time: 7:30 PM – 9:30 PM

📍 Venue: 195 Pearl’s Hill Terrace, near Chinatown MRT

🎟️ $28

🎟️ Only 25–30 spots available.

We close sign-ups once we hit gender balance.

What to Expect

• A conscious dating social with a playful Games Night twist.
• Guided group activities
• Lighthearted games designed to spark interaction
• Meaningful but not overly intense conversations
• Opportunities to observe natural chemistry
• Note-passing for someone you vibed with
• A relaxed, cozy setting in Singapore’s old-school art enclave
• A social-anxiety-friendly structure so you’re not left to “just mingle” awkwardly
• Read FAQ and event policy at the bottom of this page

Vibe First, Swipe Later is an intentional social to practice conscious dating and slow connection. This event is grounded in real-world psychology.

Designed and hosted by So You Socials, the social arm of The Conscious Mind Psychotherapy practice.

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FAQ

How many people will be there? We close ticket sales between 25-35 pax. Tickets are always sold with a close to 50–50 male–female balance. We don’t segment participants by age or other demographic specifics other than the indicated age bracket. Our focus is on creating meaningful, vibe-based connections rather than strict criteria. We ensure a fair mix nonetheless. A match-making service will be more appropriate if you prefer matching based on very specific demographic factors.

What are their ages? There are two age brackets held monthly. 20s to 30s and 30s to 40s.

I don't know what age group to attend. According to your preference.

Is there food? There isn't. The event starts relatively late into the evening (7.30pm) - kindly have your dinner first.

Is this speed dating? It isn't. If you prefer being matched with specific demographics, a match-making event will suit you better.

What are we going to be doing? Through guided conversations, themed activities, and maybe a few serendipitous moments, you’ll get to meet people who value emotional depth, self-awareness, and safety in connection.

I'm nervous. We strive to be as social-anxiety friendly as possible.

Event policy. Click to view.

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